Who is caught up in his past?
Who imagines their future and focuses on everything that could maybe be?
And who actually lives in the here and now?
The past is for a good reason our past and not any longer our present. It depends on us whether we were allowed to learn or to teach something in our past.
We should never forget that everything that happens to us is completely correct. Everything that happens to us or that we experience happens for a reason and it may sound a bit strange, but it always comes out the way that we chose it.
With every decision we make, we move in a certain direction. We know not always what waits for us at the end of the path, but the further we go, the more we recognize what will expects us and then we have the opportunity to decide again: is this path really the one that I actually want to go? Do I really find what I want as part of my life there?
So, we either follow the path, we turn right or left, or we make a complete U-turn – but that is totally up to us!
It will always be our decisions that make our past to our past. And of course we can learn from our past; from a failed relationship we take with us what a future relationship should no longer look like. We learn from a bad performance that next time we will have to work harder. Through any kind of injury we have actually the opportunity to heal and even from a disaster we can only come out stronger.
No matter what it will be from our past that influences us, it will always influence us. How? That is up to us, because we are the once that can influence how it affects us.
Nobody can tell us what an experience has to do with us. We alone decide what it does to us.
Have a look at your pastime and say goodbye to it, because there is a reason why it is your past.
Look forward to your future, you can visualize certain things in it, but live in the here and now. Make yourself aware that everything that counts is the present, the now, because it is the only time you can really take action and more important, it´s the only time where you can live...