We can learn one thing right now: people enter our lives, but on the same way they can disappear quickly.
No matter what the circumstances may be, whether it was just a brief encounter or it was a friend for years, we can be sure that it had to happen for a reason. What could this person teach us, or did we act as a teacher for them? Were we companions in a difficult time? Or could we learned that we should be more careful with our trust in someone?
I just become aware of this appearance and disappearance of people more and more and I see in the meantime, not always, but sometimes very clearly, what it is actually about. Was it me that was supposed to learn something or was I allowed accompanying someone and teaching him something?
No matter who enters our life, it always has its reason. Same happened with my last acquaintance. I don´t want to go any further on the background of getting to known each other but he broke up recently with someone and well I was just there. I knew very well who has been assigned in which role. We talked a lot, I just listened to him and then I showed him ways and possibilities.
A few days after our last conversation, I received a very long message from him announcing that he was back in touch with his ex-girlfriend and that she knows that he met me, even if only as a friend, but she is not very enthusiastic about it.
A few years ago, I would have been crazy as hell, had the world cursed and also all the males, I would have been deeply disappointed and would have said something like "Of course, it´s always me, always I am the one who is exploited."
But in this case it was different; I had to smile when I read his message.
On the one hand, it did not surprise me at all, and on the other hand, I realized exactly this: People come into our lives, they accompany us or we accompany them for a while. And it will be fine if they step out of our lives again.
What holds forever? Maybe the relationship with ‘the one’, but this model also seems to change. We start a new life with new consciousness and we leave the old models behind us.
We are embarking on new terrain.
It´s an exciting way and we can really live and enjoy it, as soon as we understand that whatever happens, happens for a reason and also it has its ‘rightness’. Everything will be so much easier for us when we are ready to accept that.