What does it mean to be ready? What does it mean to accept one's task and to be confident that everything is exactly as it should be?
How can we manage to accept what we should really accept? Where do we get the trust from, where do we get the strength from to do it?
Can´t we just rely on anyone; can't we just look at what's out there and just live our lives? Without constantly worrying, without constantly being afraid, without constantly thinking of when, if and how everything will turn out.
The answer seems simple. Trust. Have confidence in ourselves, have the belief in ourselves that we can create and do anything we want. But we really must want it - I actually try to avoid words like must and should because I can't tell anyone what they should or must do. Everyone can decide for themselves. But here it is quite well used – Well at least I think so – we really must be clear about what we truly want. Where we want to go and what we want to achieve. We are allowed to question ourselves again and again. Am I on my way? Do I still have my goal in mind? Do I even know what I'm working towards, or have I been trapped in the hamster wheel of society for a long time already?
For me it was never easy to figure that out, I don't hide behind any faith, I don't attribute the good or bad to anyone. From my point of view, we are responsible for ourselves, we make decisions for or against something. I believe that we can decide what we want every day. Do we want to turn right or left? If we turn left and realize that we have ended in a dead end, then we simply just turn around again. However, now comes a question that changes a lot: If I am in harmony with my inner voice, would I have also turned left in first place, or would I have turned directly to the right?
Again, it's still my decision. The decisive factor is where I am in my life. Am I still walking blinded through the world or am I starting to awake and realizing things around me and within myself? Where do you stand?
When we are ready to be and live within trust, really everything in life will work out. But this will not happen if we hide at home. We are allowed to show ourselves; we are allowed to perceive ourselves and be perceived by others. Things won't just fall into our lap and yet they´ll do. This may sound confusing, but if we are aware and accept ourselves, show ourselves, live our life, then everything will fall into place. By simply living. And now we are back to the point of trust. We can learn to trust exactly that. To let us fall, to let things go, to give up control. Let life run its course without trying to put things in the right balance or even try to force something. As soon as something doesn't work out easily or by itself, then take a minute and ask yourself, is this really for me? Should it really be that way?
If you are now honest with yourself and look back on the last weeks or months and ask yourself, what went easily and smoothly and where did it get bumpy? Become aware of these things for a moment and then ask yourself: With which one am I happy right now? The one that cost me a lot of stress and strength or with the one that just came easily and smoothly to me? I'm not saying that we should never fight for something in life. The crucial thing is to distinguish what it is worthwhile for and what rather not. Counter-question: But I can't know in advance what is really worth fighting for. Counter-answer: Yes. In most cases, you can. When you engage with your inner voice. What does she say? Quite often, our first natural reaction, without thinking too much, is just the right one.
Take a moment, just for yourself. Focus only on your breathing. Push away all thoughts and listen to what is within you. How does it feel to be in peace, to be with yourself, to deal with yourself and to say, okay: I accept it. I'm ready. Let's get started. And then live your life the way you feel it to be right. Go wherever you want, free yourself from what you feel you have to free yourself. Only you can decide for yourself. Do you want to live your life in the hamster wheel, or do you want to live it the way it feels right for you?